Quebec nurse had to clean up after husband's death in Montreal hospital
On a night she should have been mourning, a nurse from Quebec's Laurentians region says she was forced to clean up her husband after he died at a hospital in Montreal.
People who provide mental health support across the country have been significantly busier helping those with trauma after Pope Francis arrived in Canada and apologized for evil committed by members of the Catholic Church.
"As soon as we set up, before the Pope made his first address on Monday, we had seen about 125 people come to us in Maskwacis," said Nola Jeffrey, executive director of Tsow-Tun Le Lum Society, a substance abuse and trauma help centre that offers traditional and cultural treatment in Lantzville, B.C.
Jeffrey and her team of elders, survivors and people living with intergenerational trauma were invited by B.C.'s First Nations Health Authority and organizers of the papal visit to come to Alberta to provide support as the Pope apologized, for the first time in Canada, in front of residential school survivors and their families in Maskwacis, Alta., south of Edmonton.
"After (the apology), people just came in droves to us," Jeffrey said. "We didn't leave until the last person that wanted help was finished."
Indigenous Services Canada said the federal government's 24-hour crisis support line has received double the number of callers it usually gets since the Pope arrived for his penitential visit this week.
"The crisis lines are receiving calls from across the country," Kyle Fournier, a spokesperson for Indigenous Services Canada, said in an email Thursday.
"Callers to the crisis lines are expressing a range of different emotions. For some, the Pope’s visit and apology may be healing and, for others, it may be triggering. Discussions about the harmful legacy of residential schools are important and can also be difficult for many."
On average, Fournier said The National Indian Residential School Crisis Line received 121 calls a day since January 2022.
But the day the Pope apologized for the cultural destruction and forced assimilation of Indigenous people, the number of callers jumped to 277. The next day, the crisis line received 244 calls.
Fournier said in Alberta, 300 additional mental wellness and cultural support workers were asked to be at papal events. Sixty workers have been asked to be in Quebec and 40 mental health workers are to be on-site in Iqaluit for the papal visit, eight of whom are clinical counsellors.
For the Pope's visit to Alberta, Jeffrey said she drove from B.C. carrying traditional medicines, including cedar and spruce branches, which people brush themselves with to release negative energy.
Many people also approached Jeffrey to use cold water to wash the tears off their faces, which is done traditionally four times. The water helps with balancing emotions and grounding people.
"The first wash is to honour the Creator, the second wash is in honour of their ancestors, the third wash is to honour their territory and the final wash is when I always say, "This is the most important wash to honour a beautiful and precious you.'"
Jeffery said her team didn't turn anyone away.
"We even had a clergy come to us and the guy that was in charge of security had become depressed and came for help," she said.
The next day, she said, she stayed past midnight with her team in Lac Ste. Anne, northwest of Edmonton, after the Pope participated in a sacred pilgrimage. Jeffrey said many people there also needed help.
She said Canadians need to think about how those who can't let go of their pain can get support for the days, weeks and years to come.
"There's a teaching that it takes seven generations to let go of trauma and so we're just at the tip of this," she said. "My hope is that we can help our people," she added through tears.
"The Pope didn't talk about how the children were raped, beaten, shamed, starved and how they were experimented on. We need to make our people feel good about themselves. So many of our people are dying."
Fournier said access to trauma-informed cultural and emotional support services, as well as professional mental health counselling, will continue to be available through the federal government's Indian Residential Schools Resolution Health Support Program.
"Community-based supports vary from community to community and can include elder services, traditional healers, Indigenous health support providers and peer counsellors. Professional mental health counselling is also available through this program."
Jeffrey said Indigenous people thrived for thousands of years before colonization.
"Colonization is just a blip in our history," she said. "It's a painful blip, but I know that we can come out of that and be strong and thrive again."
This report by The Canadian Press was first published July 29, 2022.
This story was produced with the financial assistance of the Meta and Canadian Press News Fellowship.
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If you are a former residential school survivor in distress, or have been affected by the residential school system and need help, you can contact the 24-hour Indian Residential Schools Crisis Line: 1-866-925-4419
Additional mental-health support and resources for Indigenous people are available here.
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